"Of all the animals, the BOY is the most unmanageable!" ~ Plato

12.06.2007

Bah!

Things around here have been super hectic and I've been feeling sort of blah....that's why I've not blogged much! So sorry. DH and I are have some real communication issues and it's killin me. Not only that but he tends to be unfairly harsh with the guys. To make a long story short, he's been living with his buddy for the past month. In talking to him last night, I don't honestly know if he can or even WANTS to make any positive changes. Who knows what this means for me and the kids. I guess I very well may end up a single mom trying my hardest to raise 5 boys. I'm trying so hard to keep things positive and consistent for the boys. Lord, give me the strength!

7 comments:

Kelli said...

Oh, Dana. I will pray for you. God is bigger than this... please believe that.

andria said...

I am so sorry you are going through this.

I went through something similar when my first child was just two. I seriously thought we would divorce, but with the help of an outside counselor we worked through it. We spent over two years with that counselor though.

I am hoping yall can work things out.

Amie said...

Sounds like the past few months have been quite rough :( I'm praying that your family can be whole again soon.

Tracey said...

Honey, I am sending much love for you. Hoping that things work out for the best sooner rather than later...

susanhatler said...

I'm sorry to hear that things are so hard right now. Hang in there. It might not seem that way now, but you guys will find a way to work it out. Maybe lay off the problems for a night and watch your wedding video together. I'm sure it'll bring you guys closer. xoxo!

Melissa said...

So sorry to hear of this Dana. I will be praying for both of you. God CAN give you the strength!

Dawn said...

So sorry to hear you are having such a rough time. I will pray God gives you strength. I hope the two of you are able to work things out.

In answer to your long ago question:
We are missionaries here in Wales. My husband and I are both Americans. We have been living here for 1 1/2 years and enjoying every day. It can be an adventure, but mostly I would say it is lonely ... which is why I turned to the internet for friends. :)